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[Janine Dee]

I'm not sure if this is more a question or a request, but it is to the developers really…

How possible would it be to take the M-F positions and change them to F-F with a strap on? Or not in the case of licking from behind, and riding the face.

In some cases like “From Behind” that almost seems the case, and I know I would love to be either “Flexy Girl” or flexing “Flexy Girl” in strap on play.

While I would still prefer the kissing, caressing and some more toyless options the reality is M-F is the majority. So I wanted to ask if their stuff can be converted?

[Janine Dee]

ACTUALLY a good idea would be one with each major holiday.

[Janine Dee]

Okay, I did a large diatribe on the legalities in the 18+ post. So I won't repeat them here.

What I will say however is that there is a term in kink called “age play”, and it's basically the formal term for the consenting adult version of what we are talking about.

If people were setting their messages to “Enjoys Age Play (whatever range)” I don't think we'd be having this conversation, but they are not. What they are doing is engaging in risky play that leaves AChat legally vulnerable.

If anything they are often putting in words like “real”.

In that earlier post I compared AChat to restricted materials like alcohol or tobacco. While minors still get access to both I've never heard that used as a reason to remove the age limits all together.

This is NOT a matter of personal freedoms. This is a business and can be held legally accountable.

If the persons in question can not put in an “Age Play” disclaimer or even leave out the “real” they should be treated like the children they portray themselves as and be kicked out like any minor in a bar.

That said I need a question answered before I can vote for a Report Button…

What would keep it from being abused?

An example… I am a gay woman, and when I explained that to a man who wanted me to come into a room with him he called me mean… and THEN tried to invite me (still don't get that part). What would keep him from using a Report Button and making up something about me to get me into trouble?

In theory I like it because the easier it is to report the more likely it is that things will be reported, but the other side of the coin is that people will abuse the system. 

[Janine Dee]

For me this thread isn't about what is right or what is wrong. (I'll comment on that in a second, but first things first.)

AChat is a legally recognized entity, and therefore has responsibility for the activities that come about via their product.

Now it is one thing if something happens that they don't know about then they can claim legitimate ignorance, but they have a reasonable suspicion that minors are gaining access to their adult product.

It would be no different then selling a minor cigarettes or alcohol.

To argue anything else is to ask AChat to expose itself legally.

Morally if I wanted to dress up like a schoolgirl and report to the headmistresses office that would be between me and the headmistress.

On a personal level I WANT them screening because I don't LIKE seeing these under age girls when I'm looking for a playmate, or just someone to chat with, and as a paying customer I also have the right to want that.

So my summation would be that the needs of the many (those who don't want the potentially under aged here) will outweigh the needs of the few (those who may be legal, but want to play out an under aged fantasy).

[Janine Dee]

I know I would probably pay an obscene amount for a Saint Andrews cross… would have especially last night

;). So I too will ask for tools of the BDSM trade for future additions.

[Janine Dee]

Actually I would add here like I added in the “From Behind” kissing, caressing, nibbling the back and shoulders is a natural thing in this position, oh and I’ll add *I* would like to be able to play with her clit as well.

😉

[Janine Dee]

I'll agree with all of these and add a request for tribadism.

[Janine Dee]

Apollo? Ebony? I will agree by saying thank you.

[Janine Dee]

This IS nice, but I would LOVE a purely giving oral position where she or I could just lay back and be pleasured.

[Janine Dee]

Okay, you basically gave me a personal kink wrapped up with a pretty bow. So thank you.

[Janine Dee]

It is cool, but if there is room for suggestions with this I would ask if there could be additions like kissing/nibbling/biting her shoulders or scratching her back (kind of like with the 69).

[Janine Dee]

I must agree with Sandy, this position is SO intimate, especially in first person where you can look into each others eyes, lean close, or look at that beautiful curve when she leans back… I have to say this is a personal favorite.

[Janine Dee]

Let me add my voice to those saying YES.

I want the kiss, I want the cuddle. I want the caressing before and the snuggling after. I like to chat the whole time through, but after just having the icons keep grinding can take something out of it.

And I too would shell out the A$ for the privilege.

[Janine Dee]

Hello everyone, my name is Janine Dee, and I'm 22 years old.

I've spent just about half that  on the internet, but instead of it having that stereotypical effect of making me less socially active it made me more so.

I really came out of my shell in chat rooms.

As I did so chat started to loose some of it's appeal, but I suppose that's natural because I was meeting real people. What had really ended up killing chat for me however was that my old haunts started getting truly haunted by spam bots or loosing those user created options in a (sadly understandable) backlash against those abusing the systems.

So I kept up with old friends via email and the like, but stopped chatting.

Then I was surfing and the clouds opened up and a beam of light fell on a AChat ad.

I hemmed and hawwed, and then yesterday I scanned and backed up my hard drive (as I always  do before installing a new prog) and I downloaded and installed.

And I was lost.

First in not so pleasant ways as I had an invite to a room (something that seemed normal to chat) which led to me standing across from a  guy who was trying to get me to click on the glowing box where the girl was bent over and the guy was plowing into her.

But as I started to get the hang of things I figured out how to summon RoboGirl and see all the functions available to me, and I found myself saying “$30 is NOT an unreasonable sum to gamble on something with this potential.”

That potential proved itself when I was actually able to CHAT without it being a lead in to wanting to room, but it REALLY proved itself when I had some room experiences that were… amazing.

So I went to premium my first day on, but I already know I have no regrets.

A little more about me as a person would be that I am that geeky chic that would read all the big  books, actually played D&D with a room full of guys, etc, etc, but has grown without growing past it.

Love to all you wonderful souls on AChat.

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