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[Janine Dee]

I am very much inclined to agree with Bear. If your current workload is taxing your resources then adding a whole other task seems questionable.

More then that the common lament for threesomes is that it is next to impossible to find three people. So the question possibly becomes how much would it be able to be used, rather then how well it would be received?

[Janine Dee]

I came up with this as I typed the previous post, but I felt it an important enough topic to warrant it's own post.

Doms… you WILL fuck up.

Some how, some where, you will have an oops.

A smack intended for the ass will connect with a kidney, loosing track of how long you had the clamp on, whatever.

You WILL have an oops. In my experiences a sub worthy of the title understands that. If anything they often understand it better then the Dom because they are the one's being struck and have a better grasp of the amount of force being tossed around in a  play session.

Always play careful, always act in your subs  best interest, but know that accidents are eventually going to happen.

[Janine Dee]

@blue I realized that I had forgotten to give you the praise you deserved for facing your shyness and going to the Kink Labs shop. You did VERY well.

In the “Game for your brain” thread my whip was mentioned, and it inspired another post.

A good rule for Dominants to live by is that you never use anything you haven't had used on you.

So there the description was of a single tail style whip… and I don't use them because

A. Even when doing the minimum contact with flesh they HURT. I don't have any personal experience, but they are basically an ensured deep tissue bruise, about the size of a dime or smaller, and that's with each contact.

B. They have a VERY high learning curve, and you WILL hurt yourself as you are learning. Remember every action has an equal an opposite reaction, and part of learning is learning how to control the back swing, and part of learning is the inevitable failures.

Now I adore floggers, and I have been flogged. Not necessarily to the level I've flogged others because there isn't really a way to define levels as each persons are different, but I know what it's like to have my bare back flogged.

I will admit that sometimes this isn't feasible, especially if you don't have someone trustworthy to help you test things out, but you should try to strive for it. Like I said with the vampire gloves, my first act was to put one on and give my own arm a firm squeeze.

So I will say that it's a good rule that I like to share and hope other Doms will adopt if they don't practice it already.

[Janine Dee]

Orange, Scorching, Coiled?
Janine's whip?

Not sure why my whip would be orange. 

[Janine Dee]

As someone who has moderated in the past I will add my voice to Lover's and Adera's, but I will also add that probably no one who has ever been moderated has stood up and said “Yeah, okay, I deserved that.” Even the most hateful of posters will feel the victim when their hateful posts are deleted.

So a moderator's job description basically includes the “villain” tag, and sometimes their judgment call could be questioned, but judgment calls are necessary BECAUSE even those hateful posters feel their hateful posts are okay.

suzy_a has done a great job being a presence that we needed here on the forum, at least in my opinion.

[Janine Dee]

I would say that the recent changes with the LGBT and threesome getting their own threads and the changing of this board's name would indicate a commitment to the forum. If anything I'm more inclined to believe it's a “Wow… okay they're seriously passionate about what we are doing here… Now what do we do?”

Or they may be to the phase of bouncing ideas of what to do.

Either way they are probably not wanting to give too much until they know exactly what it is they want to do.

For me I see it like our FAQs. We saw a need, we strove to fill it, and not only did they not shut us down they supported our efforts. I'm having a similar train of thought here.

Oh, and I'm confident in this forum. We've filtered out the bad people before, and whatever bad ones that actually bother to read profiles and find their way here would get filtered out like the rest.

I think a good way to think of it is… has ANY multi-user program that grew big NOT had a forum?

[Janine Dee]

I think that the biggest difficulty of this Contest was that the forum is still under-promoted. I am going to open a thread on the Share board about ways to promote the forum more, though a story contest is a good one I think it's based on some interest already existing. I'm hoping we'll brainstorm ways we can get people here in the first place.

[Janine Dee]

I study Latin, and one of the biggest things I learned was that translation was more then simply submitting a word in one language for a word in the other. Which would essentially be what a translator program does, BUT it should be able to get it to the point where a native speaker could smooth it out.

[Janine Dee]

We have many multilingual users here on AChat Hentai. You could possibly find someone who could take a finished work in another language and help you translate it into English. Or you could type it up and run it through a translator and have someone help polish the language that the translator would kick out.

Assuming I'm not busy writing my own story for whatever future contest we are talking about  I would be happy to help with that second option.

[Janine Dee]

The leather cuffs are an excellent choice, and a chance for me to post a safety tip. 

The cuffs that blue are talking about (unless I am TOTALLY mixed up) are the buckling leather bands with a mounted ring you can run rope, chain, or what not through. These are FAR better, because the wider strap has enough give that it will stretch rather then damage the many delicate nerves around the wrists and ankles.

The metal police style cuffs (even if fur covered) have about as much give as you would expect metal to have, and if pulled or stretched (like cuffing someone to something) can do permanent damage.

Much like how the Wharten Wheel was originally designed a medical device metal hand cuffs/leg shackles were designed for holding potentially violent subjects.

As a more general reminder, when tying someone up remember the need for continuing circulation. There is a understandable desire to tie them up good and tight, but the undeniable biological fact is that flesh that does not receive enough oxygenated blood dies.

You may have seen pictures of things like breast binding where  the breasts are a deep purple, but in those cases the one binding them is one of two things.

A. Very experienced, and has LEARNED how to draw the line finer.

B. An idiot.

Seems a wonderful set blue… though a warning that I'm sure is already too late is that it becomes SO easy to become a bit of a toy whore.

Of course what is as much fun is pervertables… the inevitable mindset that comes with kink that ensures that every store you walk into you will find yourself coming up with kinky uses for everyday items. 

[Janine Dee]

While I had admitted earlier that the A$ was an additional incentive it was a lot of fun.

As a possible future prompt maybe we could try to find something to tie it into AChat itself. Maybe set in the most recently developed room? Using the most recently developed outfit? Give them that much more press for their support of the contest.

[Janine Dee]

I certainly don't Adera. 

And you missed two of the best choices blue!  Hope you got fun stuff like spreader bars and the like though. 

Care to share your shopping list?

[Janine Dee]

I'm just playing New. The limo would just be a version of the same I would like.

[Janine Dee]

Absolutely. I just wanted to thank those people.

[Janine Dee]

I don't know when I'd find the time to play around with it, but I wanted to say thank you to tom and the whole team for listening to our requests for this.

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