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[Janine Dee]

I think the idea may be to “show” safe sex. Of course if they were really going to go that route I'd be eating pussy through a dental dam… so I can't say I'm terribly enthusiastic.

And it could be said that you know your partner on AChat can't spread anything since there isn't any bodily fluids exchanged.

As far as the rest I always run my virus scans regularly so I know I'm clean. 

[Janine Dee]

They're also called banana hammocks, and they are quite ridiculous IMHO. I mean I feel bad for the het and bi women if THAT is what the guys are doing to attract them. 

[Janine Dee]

Well hey, let's see what roles we have covered… see if a thread is workable. You can either play the role as your handle, or you can note if you are willing to handle typing out the actions of a certain person. Like Sunny's coach.

I of course would be headmistress, and would be ready to handle the parts for any students I decide I need that aren't already played.

[Janine Dee]

I used to beat myself up quite handily over the very concept. The problem with that is the realities of BDSM. The submissive is as responsible as the Dominant for what happens, period.

They may surrender control, but they ARE responsible for who they surrender control to.

If they do it casually with someone they don't know very well there's a fairly good chance they will be hurt, and possibly severely. If they push a  Dominant to do something before the Dominant is ready the odds of an oops go up, the oops being far more serious based on the type of play.

On the other hand a submissive who gets to know the Dominant, their likes, their dislikes, and their limits (we Dominants have them too) the oops that may come is most often the kind of thing that just slows or stops play, needs a little after care and never comes up again.

It's the other types that lead to ER visits and legal issues.

[Janine Dee]

Maybe an assistant coach. At my girl's school there would be too many applicants to keep an eye on what happens in the girl's locker room. 

[Janine Dee]

Not at all.  Submissives I feel worthy of the title KNOW too that there will be mistakes. Someone can't be expected to perform every technique perfectly every time. When you add the fact that each submissive is a different person  the Dominant has to relearn their technique time and time again. No reasonable person will expect perfection under those circumstances.

That doesn't mean you don't try, but you know that it's GOING to happen.

[Janine Dee]

So… no pony girls then…  :'(

[Janine Dee]

I could consider it so that everyone could play, but I am a girl's school sort of headmistress. 

[Janine Dee]

I've always shied away from that sort of thing. One thing that is assured about BDSM is that you WILL have an oops. It's a when not an if, and I'd rather an event like when I first used nipple clamps and left them on her a touch too long then have a trip to the er and the resulting explanations.

[Janine Dee]

It's why I ADORE Viv Thomas. His women really do enjoy other women… two actually were living together at one point. After watching them watching the gay for pay girls just does not compare.

[Janine Dee]

Well Sunny honey from my understanding you wouldn't be the kind to enroll in my school anyway. 

As far as the rest, maybe I'll start a thread… I'm kinda really liking the idea.

[Janine Dee]

Sunny fisting is a rl sexual practice. It's not something done lightly, but it is done, and it's not TOO unbelievable. I mean we can give birth and a baby is noticeably larger. If you REALLY want to cringe however there IS such a thing as anal fisting, but that's even more out there because while the vagina has a degree of elasticity for giving birth the anal cavity has none and must be watched CAREFULLY for a definite danger of tearing.

[Janine Dee]

Actually I think they have something in that disclaimer everyone fast forwards past.

[Janine Dee]

Oh sweetie I wasn't talking irl.  I was talking about being just fine without any men in the shower room. 

[Janine Dee]

The sad thing is how many think porn to be somehow instructional.

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