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[Janine Dee]

Bah Lover! I talk to you guys. It's not like I actually look at you.  

The problem with pizza is getting it to the right temp and eating it at that point. You're usually either burning the roof of your mouth or it's starting to get a little TOO cool.

And sorry Sunny, but now I kinda want pizza so I can't help but talk about it, but healthy pizza takes the fun out of it. 

[Janine Dee]

I think the one thing that everyone will agree on is that it's the kind of thing you don't spring on someone.

[Janine Dee]

Welcome to the forum Ardeur.

An interesting point on the anal to vaginal.

As far as the partner being able to up your arousal… for me that would defeat a good part of the slider as it’s supposed to show your arousal. If you aren’t the one clicking it then is there still a point?

As far as the in-game music. Stop has worked well enough for me. 🙂

[Janine Dee]

LOL don't worry it was a joke. I know that I'm lucky that my play partners can have a MUCH more developed wardrobe. I just saw the joke and went for it.

[Janine Dee]

Perhaps all men should wear the same ugly clothes until all girls are complaining about us to the A-Team

Why would I… OH! You mean the OTHER girls! 

[Janine Dee]

Forum membership and game membership are separate matters entirely.

[Janine Dee]

The FFF would simply be two strap ons with the third sandwiched between. I'm not sure what the actions would be, but that's because I'm not TOO familiar with them now.

Still, we're talking about the team that had a strap on 69 pose WITH the Hand Job action. So they could and would probably just port it directly.

[Janine Dee]

I also didn't want to take this topic to a bad place. For me it factors into the Domme part of my personality. I have literally given safety presentations. So I think in this case we were both coming at it from those perspectives, both valid, just diametrically opposed.

So while you were worried about people getting turned away I was worried about people getting too enthusiastic.

[Janine Dee]

When I first saw this I was squinting at the figure on the bottom hopping there would be a FFF option as well.

Because while I would prefer a daisy chain for a FFF with all three involved this pose seems ready made for an adaptation, and a true threeway FFF is the important thing.

[Janine Dee]

The problem I'm finding with your wording Adera is that word “right” the muscles of the sphincter aren't designed for penetration. So it CAN be done safely, but the person should always respect their body. The problem is anal by it's very nature is considered extreme, and a sad number of idiots want to take it even further with bigger objects and harder penetration.

I'm not speaking to/about those who engage in sane, safe anal play. I'm talking to the idiots and those who are in danger of imitating those idiots.

[Janine Dee]

And Christina sweetie with the large mental block you seem to have you may not ever be able to relax enough to enjoy it.

I'm glad you brought up the numbing agents Adrea. I personally think they are one of the worse things that's ever happened to anal sex, with the worse probably being the excessive use of it in porn nowadays or the insane idea some girls have that as long as they don't have vaginal penetration they are still virgins.

What I am getting at is that the anal cavity was NOT designed for penetration, and those who treat it like just another hole in the body WILL do damage.

[Janine Dee]

Sunny, what I'm trying to say is different people have different tolerances. Now for your experience your muscles wouldn't have had any trouble recovering. I'm speaking more of regular anal play. Yes, those muscles can be trained to release enough to allow penetration, even some alarmingly sized penetration, but when it's regular it's not guaranteed to contract back to normal.

I know one of the more widely built prostheses being built today is a prosthetic sphincter for those who watched too much porn and did damage that their body could not repair.

The “size” issue comes into play simply because I can't give a “This measurement is okay” while “This measurement will damage you.”

There is the variable of the person's body, the size of the penetrating object, the force of the penetration as well as the number of times the sphincter is penetrated.

The one constant is that when your body says “STOP” you should.

The sad irony is that while Christina is just willing to put up with it here on AChat there are those in real life who decide to put up with it for someone they care about and damage themselves, or are too into pushing the pleasure/pain envelope until they cross the line into damaging.

But there is no way I can tell someone where the line is. The best indicator I know of is if you are wondering if you are at that line, you probably are. 

[Janine Dee]

Okay, okay, Isadore asked right in the beginning to try to keep it constructive. If we don’t like it we don’t like it. I think it’s a given it’s one of those fetishes that’s going to always rest of the edge because of it’s very nature. What makes it thrilling for those who enjoy it is the exact same thing that drives others away.

Again, not my thing, but I don’t want those who may have that kink to feel excluded.

As always though all opinions should be freely expressed. 🙂

[Janine Dee]

The biggest problem with stretching muscles beyond what they are meant to be stretched is they only have a certain degree of elasticity.

The most common example is a woman who has had a great many children… her vaginal muscles will show it. They will be measurably looser, and that WILL happen with anal as well. Now I wouldn't say what equals good, and what equals bad simply because peoples bodies are different, but as always pain is a sign to stop, and the more it hurts the more likely you shouldn't be doing it in the first place.

[Janine Dee]

For me that goes past baffling to just plain goofy. I don't think there's something I don't understand. I just think they're ridiculous for programming it.

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