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The cab door closes, and he wastes no time speeding off, which is a little disconcerting. I look up at the building in front of me, doesn't look like much, unsure that this is the place. Pulling the business card the bus boy gave me from my pocket, this looks like it, 'Achat Bar & Grill'. Turning it over, there's a red lipstick imprint with the words 'Tell 'em Brandy sent you' underneath. Unsure what to expect, I walk through the door into the Bar.

The room is abuzz with noise – music, loud conversation, laughter, cheers …my eyes are drawn to the stage where the centre of most people's attention is, where i take a double take … looks like seven male dwarfs doing a strip show? Immediately think to myself 'damn bus boy, he set me up as a joke'. Having no interest in a male strip venue, i turn and head for the door. Passing a group of people on the way i hear them talking of girls in a pudding pit … I Stop myself – maybe I was too quick to judge

Pulling up a stool at the bar, I decide to give this place a chance and see what transpires … god knows i ould use a beer right now anyway. Sitting here i have a view of the whole room, and happy to just sit and people watch.

[jay9]

That's a great post Kadanu.

It always amazes me how poor the behaviour is from a lot of the males on here (only going on what women tell me!), but I guess in number there are many more males, so it's a relative thing at the end of the day.

Speaking selfishly, I wish you hadn't posted such articulate tips for success for everyone else ….. LOL  But seriously, anything that raises the overall quality of the achat community, can only be a good thing for all of us.

I've got to admit though, being considerate and conversational on achat does not always go well rewarded! The number of times i've been in what i thought was a flirty chat going well, only to then find the girl has disappeared in room with someone else suddenly, doesn't bear thinking about!!! What do they say, “nice guys finish last”. But joking aside, i think people tend to gravitate naturally towards people of similar interests, based on profile look and banner text, etc, so that's just as important right up front in regards to chances of a successful chat eventuating.

Thanks again for a constructive post that started this thread, and thanks to those that have added their thoughts, i found this thread really interesting. Keep up the good work

[jay9]

Thanks for the warm welcome messages. Very happy to support this cause.

I will certainly try to be a more regular forum contributor ….

[jay9]

Hi All,

I'll gladly throw my support behind Pafe's campaign – I personally think the multiple facial expressions in the some of the poses are a complete waste of time, and i know I don't use them at all. I take the point that it's more about whether a kiss is doable in some of the poses, rather than the moves or facial expressions to toss out to make room for a kiss option, but I just thought I'd add another male voice to this movement, and emphasise how sensual a passionate kiss could look in most of the poses, so I vote for more kisses & hugs along with all who have already posted before me here.

Thanks and keep up the good work Achat folk !!!
Jay.

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