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Women By a Women for Men

Women, like men, have direct physical responses, sure, but these are different and can”t be short circuited. It matters to them who doing what, far more then it does to most men. The fact that, unlike you, we can”t be visibly turned off and lose erection ofter confuses men into hurrying things or missing major resources. It isn”t ture that nudity, erotica, ect, don”t excite women_ probably the difference is that they aren”t overriding things.Is it fair,I wonder, to give a simple instance? You can make orgiastically satisfactory love with a near strager in half an hour flat. But please don:t think of that reason that you can do the same for a women who loves you personally if at the end of the half hour you put her into a taxi with a bunch of roses and go off to a wife. Grantedthis, however, there are common reactions.
We seem to be less heavily programmed then you for specific turn ons, but once we see one of these working on a man we care about, we soon program it into our own response, and can be lass rigid and more experimental because of this ability.
Ofter if women seem underactive it”s because they”re scared of doing the wrong thing with that particular man,like touching up his penis when in fact he”s trying not to ejaculate__tell us if you see us at a loss. 

The penis isn”t a weapon for us so much as a shared possession, rather like a child,, it”s less the size then personality, unpredictable movements and moods which make up the turn on(which is why rubber dummies are so sickening).Another important  thing is tough tender mixture; obviously strength is a turn on, but clumsiness is the dead opposite. You never get anywhere by clumsy brutality; however brutal good lovemaking somethimes looks the turn on is strength-skill-control, not large bruises; and the ability to be tender with it..Some people ask Tough or tender? but the mood shifts so fast you”ve you got to be  able to sense it..Surely its possible because some lovers do it to read this balance from the feel of the women.No obsessive views about reciprocity who comes on top, ect, dors in eact ever out during the passing of time;; there can be long spells when one enjoys and is happy to let him do the work, and others when you need to control everythingyourself and take an extra kick from seeing how you make him respond..
Women aren”t masochistic any more then men.. If they”we knuckled under in the past its only through social pressures.If they”ve sadistic, they unfortunately don”t act it out in bed by wearing spurs and cracking a whip (any girl who does this is doing it as a male turn on) they”re more likely to express it as no saying or nagging, which contributes to nobodys orgasm..Men have a real advantage here in the constructive use of play( and can help women to act it out too). Since we all have some aggressions, good sex can be wildly violent but still never cruel.. A little fightening helps some people sometimes.. Anyhow the old idea of man as a raper and women as rapee being built in is contrary to all experience in a world where role swapping is general.
AS to the sexual equality bit, nobody can possibly be a good lover or a whole man  if he doesn”t regard women as (a) people and (b)equals. That is really all there is to be said.
Our sense of smell is the keener don”t oversaturate early on with masculine odors; just before orgasm is probably the time for full odor contact.. Our own smell excites us as well as yours..
The sort of hand and mouthwork which men like varies enormously..Some like it very rough, some hate it anything but extremel gentle,, others in between. There is no way for a women to tell except by asking and be told.. so its up to the man to say what he likes or he may get the opposite..
Some men are extraordinarily passive or unimaginative,or inhibited and oddly when they are any of thses thing, we do not become correspondingly aggressive.. We may long to do thingd and feel thoroughly frustrated, but we won”t dare show it in most cases..So a womans lovemaking will only be good with a good lover and more important she will resent any man who is unexciting not only because he is unexciting too.
Finally, just as all women are more alike to a man then all men are to women, women probably really do differ sexually rather more then men,  because of the greater complexity of their sexual apparatus.. Never assume you dont need to relearn for each person. This is true for women with a new man, but perhaps a little less so .  NEXT TIME MOUTH MUSIC 

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Thank you covems  Table if you can find one would do pls.. As for the Dwarves they saw more of me the last time i was here.. They were under 
the table having a good look.. Forgot to put on pantes that night…

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Fidelity, infidelity and so on. I'm deliberately not gone  into the ethics of lifestyle. The facts are that few men and slightly more women in our
culture go through life with sexual experience confined to one partner only. What suits a particular couple depends on their needs, situation, anxieties and so on.. These needs are a particularly delicate problem in communication;  if mutual comperhension is complete and ongoing you can
countyourselves lucky… Active deception always hurts a relationship..Complete frankness which is aimed to avoid guilt or as an act of aggression against a partner can do the same.. The real problem arise from the fact that sexual relations canbe anything, for different people and on different occasions,, from a game to a totalfusion of identities;  the heartaches arise when each partner sees itdifferently.. There is no sexual relationship which doesn”t involve responsibility,  because there are two or more people involved.. anything which, as it were, militantly excludes a paetner is hurtful,,yet to be whole people we have at some point to avoid total fusion with each other and neither of us is on earth to live up to the other”s expectations.. People who communicate sexually have to find their own fidelities..All I can suggest is that you discuss them so that at least you know where each of you stands…  next week “Women” By a Women for men

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As I make my way to the Bar & Grill for the first time in about 8 days , I cross the car park where I see someone in a car a sleep..
I walk into the Bar just then applause, whisting & cheering ring out from all corners of the Bar.. I look around to see why but with everone on there feet  I can not  make out who was singing..looks like a good night here tonight

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would like to see a room where more then 5 or 6 could go.. something like a bar and have see this done on other games

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I have to say AZ BEAUTIFUL  it would be nice to see clothes from other country…Like we all know when you see Tartan we think of Scotland

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LOVE PART 2; Nor are they of mush use in classifying merits of different kinds of a relationship. Romantic sentimentalism made  a whole generation see love as a kind of takeover bid by one individual for another.Some moderns in revolt from this are , like Casanova , so hung up on no hangups that they wont accept the essentail openness of a real relationship between people.. If sexual love can be the supreme human experience, it must be also a bit hazardous. It can give us our best and worst moments.. In this respect its like mountain climbing over timid people miss the whole experience,reasonably balanced and hardy people acceptthe risks for the rewards, but realize that theres a difference between this and being foolhardy. Love, moreover involves someone else's neck beside your own.. At least you  can make as sure as may be that you don't exploit or injure someone  you don't take a novice climbing and abamdon them halfway up when things get difficult..Getting them to sign a form of consent before they start isn't an answer either.. There was a hell of a lot to be said for the English Victorian idea of not being a cad (person devoid of finer or gentlemanly feelings ) A cab can be of either sex. Marriage between two rival each trying to produce the other regardless, isn't love..The relationship between a prostitute and a casual where, for reasons they don't quite get, real tenderness and respect occur,, is ..      NEXT WEEK  PART WILL BE ABOUT FIDELITY

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LOVE: we use the same word for man-womam,mother-child, child-parent, and I-mankind relations-rightly, because they are a continuous spectrum. In takling about sexual relations, it seems right to apply it to any relationship in which there is a mutual tenderness, respeact and consideration  from a total interdependence where the daeth of one maims the other years, to an agreeable night togrther .The intergrades are all love, all worthy, all part of human experience.Some meet the needs of one person, some of another or of the same person at different times.that;s reallythe big problem of sexualethica,and its basicallya problemof self understanding and of communication. You cant assume that your conditions of love areapplicable to, or accepted by,any other party;you cant assume that these won;t be changed quite unpredictably in bothof youby the experience of loving, you cant necessarily know your own mind.If  you are going to love, these are risks you have to take, and dont depend simply on whether or not you have sextogether.. though that is such a potentially overwhelming experience that tradition is right in pinpointing it..sometimes two people know each other very well, or think they've worked things out by discussion, and they may be right .But even so if it's dignifiable by the name of love it's potentillally an open ended experience.. Tradition has tried to cut the casualties by laying down all kinds of scedules of morality, but these never work 100per cent..

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I understand what happen to you…something like that happen to me but not as bad as you..After a month or 2 of be on Achat  I met a girl
we would spend all out time on Achat together Hours just chatting then one day she asked me could i send her a pic of  me.so after a few week i said i would but not a nake one of me she was ok with that and would send one back to me we did this for a few weeks pic of me out with friend and she would do the same then one day she said she would like to see more of me in the picture  so first i send  picture of my breasts and it want on from there..I was start to fell for her so one day she ask me for my facebook page and i said yes.. by this time we would chatting all day on yahoo she know ever thing about me my friends where i love to go with them on a night out..then one day in achat i told her that i could come out to her and we could be together for real.. she told me to go to my yahoo Messenger and she had to show me something so i want  She send me a picture of a guy when i said to her who is this think she say it was her ex it was her a guy my world fell a part..after the shock of it..i stop coming on to achat and had to tell all my friends.. get new FB,,yahoo and email..i did not come back on Achat for over 9 months but i know now i will never do that again its a game and thats all it will be to me..     

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as we hold each other we hear next song in 10 mins,JD takes my hand to walk back to AZ..I pull on his hand he look back at me
can you wait for a min I have to tell you something..this is hard for me to tell you I have to leave the Bar for a bit. something has come up that
I have to fix..and could you tell AZ that I hope to see her again soon. I look into his eyes I can see this is hurtin him but be the kind of guy he is, he know that I have to do this and will not ask me why,So I kiss him long and hard so he will not forget me I turn and walk to the door I hope I can make it outside before I start crying I walk out into the dark night cross the car park where I see a guy getting out of  a dusty vehicle so I look
down at the ground as I pass him, so he cant see the tears run down my face as I get to the far end of the car park I stop turn round and take one last look at the best Bar & Grill in town I turn and walk into the dark night with the tears running down my face. 

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there in not a thing that come near that feeling of a frist love .. my first love was at 17.. his dad and mum had move in next to us
and when i first saw him i know he was the one…we would still be together but as they say God  plan for was not the same as my one 

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are we not all roleplaying once we come on to Achat..I love to roleplay but will not play
under the age of 16..have be asked to play young girls but will not do it…
As Brandy has said the consenting age is 16 here in the uk…Of all the guys I have meet on here
over the last 7 months you could count on 1 hands all the good guys..   

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As I stand up and take  JD hand,, I ask AZ if  she will be ok, Backin a mim before she can answer
I feel  a pull on my hand and I move with JD as he leads me to the dance floor, just as we step
onto the floor the band start to play a slow ballaf after taking a step onto floor JD turns round
and pulls me close to him,, I put my arms around him,,he puts his hands on my back and pulls
me closer to him.now i can feel him breathing in and out slow then he gives me a kiss on the cheek
as he does he drop one of his hands down on to the cheek of my bottom and puts it closer to him
are bodys are so close now I can feel his cock next to my pussy,, i can feel it moving in his pants
god i so want him…Little does he know when at home i love to dance naked with a guy and
feel they cock rub up and down on my pussy…AS the band comes near the end of there song I
hope they go straigh into other song.. I dont  want this time to end…

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hi Azrielle would you like to join us  AZ sit down as she does jd tells me he has to look at the bull to see iif it work good now
AZ tells me she chief of police.. I be a good girl now for a year now i think to myself and she looks hot for a chief of police
in the low cut red top she has on just then joe drops down 2 drinks and  tells us the guy over there ask me to give them to ye 
as joe walks back to bar I ask AZ where is over there.. joe didnt point out where that guy was sitting so we look around
there is a lot single guys in bar tonight..as i look over to where JD is to see was it him.. he is working on the bull…so i turn back to talk
with  AZ

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thank you James_Dean I have a drink if thats ok and the something can wait till after..As i look at him i feel myself getting hot so I uncross my legs forgetting that i have no pants on.I tell him that me and sggt are not together anymore<

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