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My apologies I think I've taken things a bit too personally, this thread reminds me of the one I made about nice guys a while back.  The point I was trying to make is that just because someone is shy and polite doesn't make them weak a sub uninteresting or even bad in bed if you're talking about life in general. 

[mercer78]

So you associate manners with weakness Adera? If this is so and is a commonly held belief on here then I think my days here are numbered

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This is a problem that will never be resolved as kittenlepurr says a lot of ladies tendency is down to previous bad experience(s) which is understandable. Unfortunately this causes somewhat of a vicious circle because when nice guys join up and keep getting ignored they get disillusioned and quit.  This in part is what keeps the nice guys in the minority and d bags in the majority.  Sorry if this seems a bit negative but I always call it like I see it.

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Bottom line here is there are a lot more men than women on achat so men are going to find it a lot harder to find willing partners be it for chat or just room especially newbies I know I have.  To be honest it's only the friends I've made that have kept me from quitting all together.

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Welcome Gedion hope you like it here on the forum lots of lovely people to chat to and some great stories to read.
Hey Cheya maybe you could teach me some German too I've forgotten most of what I learned at school lol.

[mercer78]

Enjoying the atmosphere I think to myself what a fantastic place this is and to think I stumbled upon it completely by chance.  Plus the fact you'll never alone is one of my favourite songs of all times and never fails to bring a lump to my throat.

[mercer78]

I have to agree with both posts and think the legs up pose is also a good alternative.

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I would love to read the finished article even if there is no sex at all.

[mercer78]

I like what I've read so far and I'm keen to see more you are a very talented writer.

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I'm willing don't think I have the correct poses but sure something can be worked out.

[mercer78]

I would only be open to skype with certain individuals and they probably know who they are.  The idea is a good one but I would ultimately advise caution.

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I arrive just in time to join in the toast and then decide to make one of my own:  Merry Christmas to all my new friends and thank you for welcoming me in to your world.  I then take a seat with glass of scotch and decide to just enjoy the atmosphere for a while.

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I've just been on the receiving end of a cancellation and they've even gone to the trouble of adding me to there ignore list.  funny thing is haven't really been on much lately so have no idea what I did wrong, couldn't have happened at a worse time either because my prem expires soon and I was already in 2 minds about renewing.

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This is a difficult issue and I agree with the buyer beware philosophy.  I do see one other problem that is one of reputation picture the scene you've just signed up got yourself some A$ get conned like described above what are you going to do next?  Well depends on your personality some would chalk it up to experience and move on, others and this is the group I'm worried about would firstly quit achat and secondly probably spread bad word about it around the net  ” don't sign up its full of whores and con artists” etc.  As anyone who's worked in customer service knows negative rep spreads quicker than positive justified or not.  Just my 2 cents on the subject. 

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I to do not like this particular practice while I agree this is supposed to be fantasy that doesn't make it ok to deceive other members.  If you have a fetish about pretending to be a woman she-male or what ever why not say so in your profile or in chat who knows you may get some positive responses. Which I think will lead to a better experience for all involved.

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