@ Andrea
But who decides whether it is extreme? I can't stand Bukkake or gangbangs, is that extreme? To some it would not be.
Then there are many facets of BDSM that I don't like; piercing, knives, blood or toilet play of any kind. Who will protect me from that?
The few members, who are intersted in bukkake, gangbang, blood or toilet play… either just posted once or then and when (I remember some asked for pissing and in the past we had one blood play). It's not a big theme. But of course, there are people loving it and we will get threads including it.
This is the discussion now. We're asking everyone, when there should be a sign/warning and when it might be silly. I'm surprised you feel offended, as you posted a warning in your age play story (Little Amy) after talking to us.
“Authors note – this is an age play story. If it offends you, don't read. Both characters are of legal age and consent. It is bedroom play, period.”
This is exactly what we're talking about now, asking for your ideas and opinions.
In many other sex forums BDSM has an own board – I never noticed there are complaints about it. We don't have an own board, but having a symbol in the title makes it easier to notice what the thread is about – for those not liking it, but also for those loving it.
jcm started an own thread for bdsm pics – does somebody feel to be segregated? I think it was a great idea – those who love it, have an own thread. Those who are curious and want to know more, also know where to look. Those not liking it, don't have to look. Simple but effective.
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I feel offended not by the sign but by the fact that you will then lump all kinks together, I think that is what Blue and I are trying to convey.
Its like those people that find out you like BDSM, “oh well thats all you like” No, I like Vanilla too. AND I don't like everything in BDSM, in fact some of it disturbs me just as BDSM in general disturbs Vanillas
