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[Mrs_Wife]

By all means your right, have been nice people on the forums.  From what I can tell the trouble makers on the game don't come here.  And I am sure there is a very good reason for it.  My focus was in the game not here.  The forums seem a nice place, the game itself how ever is another story. 

Thank you to those of you here that have been nice in hearing me out and sharing with me. 

Thinking on it, being how folks seem pretty nice here on the forums and how things are tossed to the wolves in the game.  Maybe the mods of these forums should be allowed to be mods on the game too.  As it seems they do a good job here. 

As is everything is taken care of, have a handle of what I can do to deal with any problems.  No more worries.  Again thanks to all of you that have shared and been kind here.

[Mrs_Wife]

I just posted this under the other topic about the same issues.

Stone had a lot of good to say.  Nice to see.  Though AChat is doing nothing on these problems.  No behind the scenes or any such thing.  That would be why these guys keep doing what ever they want and trying to harass others.  They know they can get away with it.  I reported this a few times to AChat support, have screen captures of the chats and all that has gone on.  All support had to say was sorry, nothing we can do.

Any way, the game seems interesting, lots of poses and a ton of actions.  But the total lack of any and all support makes paying for it very iffy. 

I will say now that I have a better grasp on things I can do I am able to laugh at all of this as a really bad joke.  And laugh at “support” as well.  When I say support I do not mean you mods here on the forums.  I can take two seconds and see you mods here do help as best you can.

On another side note, there seems to be a good number of males who don't like it when a female stands up for herself.  In their minds any females on the game are sluts and nothing more.  So when they read my profile or talk to me they get all pissy.  This gives me a good giggle.  Also sorry to say this has been most the guys who have talked to me.  Gives a rather bad view of the games community.

[Mrs_Wife]

Stone had a lot of good to say.  Nice to see.  Though AChat is doing nothing on these problems.  No behind the scenes or any such thing.  That would be why these guys keep doing what ever they want and trying to harass others.  They know they can get away with it.  I reported this a few times to AChat support, have screen captures of the chats and all that has gone on.  All support had to say was sorry, nothing we can do.

Any way, the game seems interesting, lots of poses and a ton of actions.  But the total lack of any and all support makes paying for it very iffy. 

I will say now that I have a better grasp on things I can do I am able to laugh at all of this as a really bad joke.  And laugh at “support” as well.  When I say support I do not mean you mods here on the forums.  I can take two seconds and see you mods here do help as best you can.

On another side note, there seems to be a good number of males who don't like it when a female stands up for herself.  In their minds any females on the game are sluts and nothing more.  So when they read my profile or talk to me they get all pissy.  This gives me a good giggle.  Also sorry to say this has been most the guys who have talked to me.  Gives a rather bad view of the games community.

[Mrs_Wife]

Oh wow TG_Chaser, I never thought about all the money he must have tied up in all those accounts.  That is freaking nutty. lol

And you have a point FoxyRoxxy, I'm sure they will get tired of it.  And it is a virtual and 3D sex game, but we still get to choose who we do, and do not, have sex with.  People should not get mad and trash others just from someone not wanting to have sex with them.

[Mrs_Wife]

Have yet to see any good in the game.  But will see as the month goes.  Right now not sure about putting money into a game that has no rules to keep this crazy stuff from going on.  Other games out there like this we have tried with none of this silly stuff.  One of those might be a better choice.  One has much more to do, and another had a little more to do with amazing graphics, leaning towards that one.

[Mrs_Wife]

Well I hope your right AusWoody.  But again has not been a very few, has been many and most.  I just posted this in another spot, but I think I am getting all this negative attention from not wanting to have sex with just anyone.  I think since my profile had on it that I was here for my husband, most the nice guys do not message me out of respect.  While all these not so nice guys message me to bash me for not being slutty.

[Mrs_Wife]

This is a shot in the dark, but I think the reason we are having such a bad time and attracting all the bad is from not being an open couple.  I think me not being an open slut for anyone and everyone is bringing me all the bad attention.  So all these guys are randomly messaging me to tell me off.  Simply from me not wanting to sex around with everyone.

[Mrs_Wife]

We are not being ran off, but it would be silly to pay money into something that there is more bad then good.  There are a few other games we have tried kind of like this as well.  Had very few problems with those, so would rather put money there.  It's finding a good place to be, and so far here has been all bad.  Like I said not just one guy, or a few, been many.  I'll have about 5 guys talk to me each time I get on.  Just random people, out of those 5 maybe 1 will be nice.  The numbers are looking very bad here.

You say it's a good place with good people, I have yet to see it.  And what is the point of being on a game you have to ignore everyone on.  I'll be on and off for the month I paid for, so like I said I will see if anything changes.  But so far most on the game have simply been mean for no reason.

[Mrs_Wife]

The is rather interesting evilbaby.  Thanks for posting that.  Looks like a few of the answers you got were pretty honest.  If they don't speak English I am sure it is hard for them.  And I can see the point about saying “Hi” so many times and never getting anything back.  Good look inside things.  Again nice work evilbaby.

[Mrs_Wife]

I just posted this in another spot but will here too.  The ignore does not always work.  If someone does this often they know how to get around it.  I kept getting messages from people on ignore and did not understand how.  As it turns out if you ignore someone, they can ignore you too then take you off ignore and it takes them off your ignore as well.  So just a heads up.

[Mrs_Wife]

I'm stuck for at least a month as I did not stay a free member long enough before dropping money into he game.  So I'll see how it goes.  But has been more then the one guy.  Most these guys that start a chat with me start out calling me a slut, whore, or something of that nature.  And these are people I have not ever talked to before.

I may only be seeing the bad side of it all, but it does look pretty bad being new and dealing with nothing but these kinds of people all the time.  And the games ignore feature if flawed.  I kept noticing those I had put on ignore would be able to still message me the next time I got on.  Turns out if you ignore someone, and they ignore you they can then take you off ignore and it takes them off your ignore as well.  So no help there.

Thank you for the offer Jensen, but I don't want you to do that.  I am sure this guy would simply get off on someone else giving him attention.  And giving him another person to make up more wild dreams about. 

I will just keep logging all the chat and taking screen captures to send in.  Maybe the AChat staff will get tired of it and finally do something.  But again they said it's nothing but public chat, there for your on your own. 

My guy was going to go premium as well, but since all this is going on we decided to hold off on putting any more money into the game.  Hate to waste more funds on something that wont be used.  On his side of things and off topic but, anyone know what net speeds you need to run AChat?  He has been having a hell of a time being able to get on and stay on. 

[Mrs_Wife]

I did all the things you said, reported, chat logs, screen captures, ignore, repeated, did it again, repeated, did it again.  I took it here so maybe some how some way the guy would be seen for what he is and others would know.  ACaht staff has made it clear this guy can do what ever he likes.  Bully, lie, post false claims on people calling them scammers.  Anything he wants he can do and AChat staff does not care. 

They say it is a public chat like any other, you have to protect yourself.  That is all.  So that is why this guy and those like him do this, they know they are free to bully, rant, lie, and any other such thing all they want.  There is no stopping it according to AChat rules.  Those rules or rather complete lack of rules on these topics only protect the one being the bully.

All the legal ways of having it dealt with lead to nothing.  He can bully all he wants, how ever he wants, any time he wants.  So say the AChat gods.

So I will not bother your forums with it.  Others will be left clueless to him and be forced to go through his crazy game of bully.  And he will be left to enjoy it all he wants at all the other players dismay.

How ever in game is another story, this guy can get away with it all in game so can I.  This guy can put up his own little blog to trash people with full names and info, so can I.  This guy just bit off way more then his bubble blowing baby mouth can handle.

The all time worst thing about this silly stuff is, I paid money to be put through it.  Not for a fun game, nope, to be thrown into a bunch of crap.  4 days on that game and 1 person was nice.  Everyone else started off trashing me, even though I have never spoken to them at all.  And called every name in the book.  I had nothing bad in my profile just that I was new and playing with my husband, that's it. 

Any way wasting my time going on and on, wasting any ones time reading this too.

[Mrs_Wife]

Ok awesome to hear Brandybee.  So what is being done about these guys you know about and are watching?  Anything?  Or just watching them do what ever they please as they bully the games members?  Not trying to sound mean asking that, completely just asking is all.

From the facts I have seen, these guys you know are being a bully to players.  You are watching them.  Reports about them, logs, screen captures, and even an off site web page trashing players by name with these guys names on it, have all been sent into staff.  Yet nothing is being done and they are left free to keep doing what ever they please. 

So if the AChat staff can not, or wont, do anything about it what are the players supposed to do to stop it?  Please do not say ignore as they have many accounts to keep coming at us. And will keep making alts to keep harassing.

If we, the players are to take this on ourselves as no one else can.  And we, the ones being harassed have to follow rules that these guys do not.  How are we to stand up to this threat?

I am not trying to be disrespectful to any mods here,  am very truly sorry if it sounds that way.

[Mrs_Wife]

So it seems XXXXX is the main account for XXXX.  The link I posted at the start of this thread is this guys own little ego inflating hole on the net.  He goes there to trash people from AChat behind their backs like a coward.

So right here right now I'm calling you out XXXXX A.K.A. XXXXX.  Stop acting like a big shot on your little praise to yourself page on the net and meet me here.  You can rant and rave all you want on that bubble blowing baby page, it means less then nothing.  Come be a man and not a baby and meet me here.

Or could it be your too scared to talk where others have a chance to talk back?  Bring it coward!

MODERATED. NAMES REMOVED AGAIN TO PREVENT EMBARRASSMENT.  KEEP YOUR SPATS BETWEEN YOURSELVES. WE WONT ALLOW FORUM TO BECOME THE PLATFORM FOR YOUR DISAGREEMENTS.

[Mrs_Wife]

Oh wow, this guy has the same deal.  How insane, does this game have that many of these guys that AChat staff can do nothing about?  Just let them go free?

But my statement is the same, any of you out there who has either of these guys or the alts trying to bully you speak out.  We can stomp these people out.  Since the staff is not able.  No reason to let these kids get away with playing bully.

This is a game for us all to have fun, let's take it back from people like this.

MODERATED BY BRANDYBEE. Please do not name offenders here. Send your complaints to the Moderators or Support wuth copies of your offending logs and messages.
You are right. We all work together to stamp out this online bullying but The Moderators will not allow it to spill out on to Forum. Thank you.

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