As a long time resident in SecondLife, I agree fully with the original post. Detailed and descriptive RP is what makes these encounters worth the monthly fee.
Now having said that.. There IS a slightly different way of approach. Instead of indicating your actions, describe them. For example:
As I step from the shadows, the bright glow of the ember of my cigarette lights my face. Slowly drawing on the smoke, then staring hard into your soft eyes, I whisper deeply, “Imagine seeing someone as sexy as you here.”
Slowly I exhale as my hand drops from my pocket, a length of rope unfurls in it and dangles down. “You shouldn't have came this far into the city, princess. It's not healthy”
The dark shape takes a step towards you as the smoke circles your head.
Hello all. My name's Ogart. And if are a like minded RPer.. give me a shout..