Your post has given me new hope for this game. Recently, I've had some bad interactions in the meeting places, such that I am questioning the worth of participating in the game at all. But, your ability to find and marry another player gives me optimism. Clearly, there are other players here who open and honest with their feelings, and don't spend their time putting down others.
I am not here to meet someone: I have been married for quite a few years, and this game has helped me to bring new life to our marriage. While it hasn't been easy, it's been worth it.
So I wish u and your bride-to-be congratulations and the best of luck in the coming years. Just love each other, and, as they say, don't let the bastards grind u down.