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I'm not sure about posting on this, but here goes…
I have quite a few friends. I never went mad desperately friending anyone. I still make new friends and I hope everyone does.
I have made some friends on the same day I have first spoken to them, others only after meeting several times.
I have never deleted a friend and every time I log on I check them all out to see if they are on-line. If they are I message them, if they aren't and we haven't spoken for a long time, I message them to ask how they are and hope we see each other soon.
I have been deleted from 2 people's friend's lists, one was a good friend who is likely to read this and we both underestand how that came about. the other was someone who is now on my ignore list as he was trying to possess me 100% of the time, but he deleted me, not the other way around.
I too get many “cold” friend requests, but delete them all. I couldn't accept as a friend someone I didn't know even a little in much the same way as I don't respond to cold “room requests” except that sometrimes I will talk to them and tell them not to “cold” people.
I would be deeply hurt if someone deleted me from their friend list and would (did) message them immediately to ask why.Blue, If it's me you're talking about as far as cancelling you, which I'm sure it is, I'm still deeply sorry about that, & I probably will be for a very long time. Like I've told you when we spoke, that was driven by something & someone else. I'd never ever ever want to hurt you in any way. I want to be the one that you turn to when you need someone
. I just want to reach out right now & give you a huge hug sweety .I don't believe they give a chapel, church, convent or something like that.
But what a bout a new room, with more romantic interieur (for those who like it)? We have room extras now, so a room, looking like a wonderful wedding suite with a big bed, candles, dimmed lights (a bit darker then the rooms suddenly are) would be a good beginning.Mike, it's great you found something special in this short time. If you want a wedding cerenomy, ask me, I will be your priest
My spouse & I have been together since September 2011. She's very special to me in many ways. One thing I like to do as far as rooms go is to recognize my room as our room, or our home, because that's what it is for us. It's our sanctuary of of love & a safety net for us to share as a loving couple. As Lover said, some special room extras would be nice to get, as well as maybe some different settings. Example, in the city skyline room, why not create the option for snow outside during the Winter months? Being from New York City, I see my share of snow. It's little things like this that would help create a special. loving environment for you & that special person, not even necessarily a spouse. A special friend, or a special lover.
And yes Lover……I might just take you up on your offer to be a priest for a wedding ceremony for Chantall & myself. I'll let you know when & where. It'll probably take place on our yacht
.I'm surprised you didn't hear my knees knocking together loudly from how much I was shivering, standing in the snow, Medjai. Tehehe.
The idea to add specific wedding-oriented poses would make sense for people who want to recreate the traditional ceremony with their spouse, but the developers would have to weigh the cost of their time and effort to create the poses, chapel, etc. And weigh it with the importance and relativity to their community. Will monogamy win over polygamy? Or even Polyfidelity? (I know you can have more than 1 spouse but I'm speaking in the traditional sense.) I have suggested this before, but I think it will be easier to role play a wedding through dialogue than expect AChat to create a wedding theme any time soon. Just my opinion.
Oh, and yes, I have designed a few banners before.
Keiko, You are one of the best fashion designers out here. How about some wedding dresses? And maybe some special bridal lingerie? I'd love for my spouse & I to wear those together
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Some of you actually want to take that option and button away,, to you all I say I can never trust or be friends with you ever..Hello ginger,
Not to worry…I don't need your trust, & I certainly don't need you as a friend if this is how you feel. As Lover said, everyone here is entitled to an opinion, be it right, wrong, or indifferent. :
It's your right to use or not use this function. I can tell exactly where you are going with your words here, & that's if a person does not agree with everything you say, you can't trust them or be friends with them. Real life does not work like this, & that type of thinking is definitely unrealistic here. Bottom Line – I don't like the idea of that ignore button for reasons I have spoken about earlier in this thread. Do I use it from time to time…yes, although not for the purpose that some use it for. I definitely don't expect all to agree or follow my lead, but this is my feeling on this matter.
I initially thought this was a good idea at first. Only thing is that this option does not separate those who are total free users from those who were once premium & did not renew. Unfortunately, I found this out the hard way. I turned this on and at this time, my own spouse had not renewed her membership, so I ended up blocking her. I felt like the worst person in creation after that. :'( From what I see, many of the total free users (ones not having any blue star on their profile) just look to use the members for the poses, & it's these types of users that I want to ignore, not anyone on my lists who's premiums have expired. As Newgurl said earlier, I'm glad I can currently afford to have this membership, sadly, there are some who can't, for whatever reason. A friend of mine left recently because she lost her job, & couldn't pay for this anymore, & was too embarrassed by it. Anyway, let me get back on point here as I don't want to be scolded by a mod for getting off topic in my 1st post in months. I feel that there should be a differentiation between free users, & those who were premiums at one time but have since not renewed. I have several of these types of relationships, & this option right now gives potential to damage those relationships. And it's not that I want to ignore all of the free members, primarily just the known pests. This is not the way to encourage people to join the site, it actually can be a turn off to new members.
Just my two cents here
where is this ranking ?
Rukya, to see the members & how they're ranked, go to http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com, & at the top of the page, click “members”. Members will appear 12 to a page, from the higest to the lowest.
I didn't even know there was a ranking, where is it? Achat member pool? where is that?
Steph, you've lost me and as to where I am or how I got there, I've no idea, it can't be based on room-time, I'm lucky if I get 4/week and usually with NG too.
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NG xxxBlue, to see the members & how they're ranked, go to http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com, & at the top of the page, click “members”. Members will appear 12 to a page, from the higest to the lowest. You're ranked at #60, out of a few hundred thousand members. That's pretty good. Anyway, I used to worry all the time where I was ranked, but not anymore. It's really kind of a vain thing. I posted this because I am just curious what drives the rankings.
hentaiboy, I do know that you are a guy, & that's fine.
I did read that in your profile. And this is a fantasy site, so this is the place to do that. And I think you are a very nice friend as well. Kisses.Shit, I wanted to invite you all to a big AChat convention this summer
For most of us meeting in real is not wanted. Though I can unerstand people who do want. Not only for sex. I was asked to visit a girl not so far away from my home to meet her in the city. I refused, cause I like to chat, love to have fun here, but meeting in real is another level.
For you girls it can be more dangerous. You don't really know the person behind the screen.Well said Lover.
Safety is a huge concern for me. As for an AChat convention, the idea of that sounds pretty cool. . I would never meet in RL with anyone on here. I might share a sexual pic of my self, however I never show my face and never ever give out contact information, other than an e-mail address I have set up for here. Too many dangers out there for me. and No I dont believe this is a dating site. It is a fantasy sex site. Emphasis on Fantasy!!!
Well said NewGurl! I'm the same way. I'll never go to meet anyone here in real life. With those I trust on here, I may talk about my real life some, but that's my limit. I did have some guy hounding me to meet him for a long time as it turned out he lived near me in real life, but I refused. After he persisted, I had to put him in my ignore box.
I give sm3369 a big hug Thanks for the reassuring words, I do love my wife and I miss her terribly. You have a lot more time problems than me and you make it work. I m readjusting my schedule so I can be on more often when she is. thanks again sm (kiss, hug)
You're very welcome NewGurl, and thanks for the hug too
. Many of us out here share the issue of the time difference. Most times, when I'm having dinner, she's getting ready for bed. Germany is six hours ahead me on the East Coast. I often find myself “tucking” my spouse in at that time. I know it might sound a little silly, but she loves it. It's nothing more than some tender words and actions at bed time, but she's told me that it makes her feel safe & loved, & that's important to me. And by the way, NewGurl, you can call me Stephanie instead of sm. That's what most people here on Achat call me. I hate my username, but I'm kind of stuck with it. I never planned to stay on this site, so I thought up a lame user name. Had I know I'd stay here this long, I'd have been much more creative with it. It's just that most of the people here have been wonderful to me, yourself included NewGurl. Kisses. Hugs.
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And by the way, NewGurl, you can call me Stephanie instead of sm. That's what most people here on Achat call me. I hate my username, but I'm kind of stuck with it. I never planned to stay on this site, so I thought up a lame user name. Had I know I'd stay here this long, I'd have been much more creative with it. It's just that most of the people here have been wonderful to me, yourself included NewGurl. Kisses. Hugs.