Hi Michelle, I would like to suggest that you leave the real and the virtual distinct, in this case aChat. It's true, people like Lucio69, Myk_EP and a few others are wonderful, the same I have met in my 8 years of attendance and so far only two know 20% of me. This is not out of lack of trust but only because perhaps the world of aChat is beautiful because it is secret. Then … if you are looking for a man with whom to establish a serious relationship you should start looking elsewhere, not because there are none in aChat, but because it would be more difficult and long as a search given the possibility of lying that this place offers and believe me, hypocritical and false people are not only out, but above all here. I wish you to find what you are looking for that should not be suggested by others but felt by yourself. Now I'll quit otherwise you will blacklist me as a pedantic and boring man. @->