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Rukya, you are right, we all and I mean ALL of us started out as free members………..
Personally, I started out as a premium member, was never a “free” user.
I raise this issue ONLY because it illustrates the danger of generalization. When we generalize our opinions to everyone on here, the risk of inaccuracy is high. My point is to corroborate someone who already said what we need is to fine tune options. Of course options should be diplomatically worded so as not to offend anyone. However, options are just that, OPTIONS. To be utilized by each individual at their own discretion. I believe this is the key to growing AChat. A system with enough options that most people are motivated and rewarded with the satisfaction to continue playing.
you know that even men stay with the blue star when no longer premium so no need to be jealous
Sorry, I only mentioned female because it was extracted from the previous answer. I am not gender biased. I just want to figure out an easy way to determine upfront who is premium and who is not. I am kind of tired of inviting someone who appears premium (blue star showing), who then tells me, “yeah I used to be”. I also know you can directly ask ahead of time, but it crass to put that in a conversation.
I did note the “
” accompanying your message, so I know you were kidding me a little. I am not devoid of humor, so thank you dear. :-*Dear AChat,
I would like to take this opportunity to thank you and all your members, be they premium or free ones. You have rekindled a spark that was not producing as much heat as it should have been. Ever since menopause started, my libedo began to decline and I realized that I was missing that part of my life. I did talk to my doctor about it, and she put me on an estrogen regimen and suggested natural foods to help increase my sex drive. That worked to an extent, but it still felt like something was missing.
Then a dear friend of mine discovered AChat, and she talked me into checking it out with her. I thought it sounded silly, making cartoons perform sex acts. I was wrong, it is much more than that. It is an intimate joining of the largest sex organ in the body, The Mind. We started out as free users, and discovered that the visualizations from the avatars was very stimulating, even as a non-premium member. Then a special person gave me a gift to try it as a Premium Member. One time at that level convinced her and I to sign up. Our two characters met and entered a room, and I'm not exactly sure how it happened or when it happened, but my desire increased, and my spark burned a little hotter.
I am now paying more attention to things in my life that I had let slip a little, things like the music that is playing, paying more attention to my body and paying more attention to family and friends, even to others that I meet. I see beauty in more things, and I find myself interested again in clothing and also in my appearance. I bought lingerie! Really sexy lingerie! I haven't bought anything like that for myself in years. I'm dressing a little more provocatively and not like the frumpy old lady I had become, I am using makeup more! I feel that AChat is a large part of this change. How long this change will last, I don't know, but I am grateful for where I am now.
We, my friend and I, truly wish to thank the developers, and coders for their hard work. We also want to thank the other players/people on the site for their understanding, thoughtfullness and vivid imaginations. My heart sings a little more, my desires for intimate pleasures burns with that hotter spark, and I just wanted to show my appreciation.
Thank you AChat.
Thanks for letting me share,
PafeMy guess is that a number of people on here have benefited from your awakening. From my limited, but extremely fortunate experience, your desire was only sleeping. You must have always been a passionate and caring lover, because that depth of sensitivity and giving must come from within. :-*
Hm, I'm bit unsafe what to think about. It's ok to block cold invites, but messages? It seems to me, they didn't listen to us, it is more a way to get more prem members.
Judging from the date of your post, I am late to the forum, but agree with you 100%. I was hoping for a mechanism to TEACH new members that cold invites were inappropriate. However, to block them from initiating a conversation closes off a potentially rewarding new relationship. The current mechanism makes me choose between the two, and I have erred on the side of allowing contact, while being forced to continue enduring “cold insults”.
QUOTE “So this is the new SF pose and it costs A$ 249.
Shemale options:
Lean on elbows.
Massage breast
Bend over.
Cross legs.
Quick action.
Sitting.
Bigger movements.
Lick tit.
Grab dick.
Slap ass.
Finger in pussy.
Jerk off.
2 pleasure faces.
[/list]So… this is supposed to be done by two girls? It can probably be done by some… like when the shemales bodily build isn’t very “girly”, but for me to be able to lift a girl off her feet with the sheer power of my thrusts? That seems kinda improbable unless she’s light and very bouncy.
Overall I think the pose is kinda bad, I don’t find it very exciting for various reasons, one being that I’m no bucking bronco and I hate it when females think I am one. If a girl suggests this pose I’m going to ask her if she thinks she would be able to be the giver in it so she gets some perspective.” END QUOTE.
First, TY for the analysis and list of “actions”. Second, if you do find a girl light enough for you to lift in the air completely off your cock, I hope she is accurate coming down or she is likely to break your “bronco”. 😮 ;D
Janine said it first AND best. If you can't tell, what does it matter? Actually, her thought was more why waste time even worrying about it. relax and enjoy the experience! You're here for fun and action. have both! in real life, you don't like every man/woman you meet. treat it the same here. if you feel uneasy about someone, don't 'room' with them.
Agreed! The minute one discovers deception in any relationship, trust is destroyed, and attraction with it. On a fantasy experience why actively seek out this potential disappointment? :
And one more personal observation: “attitude” supersedes “gender” for me. For example, the other day I was trying to politely initiate a conversation (perhaps clumsily?), and the woman replied, ” I am on here to chat. Just not with you.” 😮 Regardless of gender or physical attributes, that person makes my “ignore” list. In summary, if you are “faking being a girl or shemale”, don't tell me. Just be polite and sensitive, and I will do my best to respond. :-*
oook, i had see a pis some days ago perfect for some kitchen or living room but can't find it out again, so i have realized this and use it. basiccally a MFF, but works for more combination:
errr….girls, read carefully next time…and yes, the pose can be a FFF or whatever!
i haven't read it all to see what ppl have said but i would love to see it where all 3 ppl are a bit more involved in 3some poses according to what most ppl like that is for i don't like seeing a person off to the side it almost feels like that person can get left out at least that is my opinion on it. as for certain poses for 3some i'm really not sure on that yet lol i don't get to do 3somes very often
You are 100% correct. In my experience in real life, we never leave the third person out. :o:)
West, if you look at the suggestion we post, u can see we are always try to involve all 3 peoples! this is how i like a threesome here!
if one of them just wanna watch, isn't a problem, i know there are peoples who just like peeping at two lover, but this is not my case!I think we are in agreement. Certainly if a partner only chooses to watch, and derives pleasure from that, then great.
In contrast, my style is similar to yours', allowing ALL 3 to actively participate, and current poses are lacking in this aspect.
Whether “passive or “active”, the key is the option of choice, and AChat would be enhanced by expanding this flexibility.*gets water hose and aims it at tight turns it on and then spins around dousing the entire room* lol *turns water off and runs off and hides*
Are you submitting this as a new “fetish” pose?
West, your wish is coherent. We have to buy something, just knowing the cover and not the content.
But this is the reason we're adding the polls here including the actions. If you say, it should not be our job you are right. But at least it's a good chance for all undecided. And as far as I know us here, there will always be a helping hand (and more ) for testing.Fantastic. I will look here for a “Consumer Reports” review before buying in the future. :-* Thank you for servicing me…………….whoops, I meant thank you for this valuable service.
There are some excellent points made in the previous several posts, and it would be too long to quote them all.
You can accept hookers as a part of life, and not let it bother you as Janine seems to be able to do. You can “passively” express your distaste by simply never establishing a dialogue, or you can more actively, liberally use your ignore button to send a message.
In summary, at least there are multiple options to communicate your philosophy. Just for the record, if you “invite” me, I consider that a “gift”.
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